whether theyll grow up on the other side or remain as you knew them

“We dropped down the future and my boys, um, are in their bedroom and they're discussing the fact that mom has died and they look the same age, so it was, it was still fresh.”113:42

“8 years into the future after dying. So it was like that day, eight years into the future, I was being brought forward. And I could sense every like every year I could feel that love that we had is the is our connection. It's our, you know, it's it's how I know them and they know me. It's that light. And I could feel it getting dimmer and dimmer. It's like they were forgetting me. Not that forgetting me in their mind that I'm their mom or I'm the I'm I'm the wife or whoever, but they couldn't feel me”31:32

“As we went further up, the ages of the people I saw got a little bit, but there was never any seniors, including loved ones we had lost that were senior. They're now in their 20s and 30s. So I don't immediately recognize them, but I feel them and I feel their love, and they knew me. So even though I didn't recognize them, they knew who I was, they recognized me. I do now. I mean, because I've run it through my mind and replayed it in my mind so many times, I recognize them all. Yeah, but or the bulk of them. Some of the older seniors I had never got to meet unfortunately. They had passed before I was old enough to remember them.”20:27

“I think one thing to remember is that love continues on. Love never dies, basically. That I feel the love of my parents still now. It's not like it's ended. It's not like they've both passed and the love is no longer there. I still feel just as loved by them now as I did when they were alive and when I was a kid. And I still feel the same love for them as well.”31:30

“So our, our experience of time is, is long, years, but on the other side, when somebody crosses over, they still grieve for us who are left here, but it's different for them.”43:56

“And I saw the future of me, of eight years after dying, I experienced like, and like I said, it felt like eight years. I experienced like my children, they were like, and my husband, very bright. And as the years were going, going and going, I could feel it, like, the feeling like they couldn't feel me anymore.”148:39

“Maybe they didn't get to say goodbye to you. I wouldn't have had a chance to say goodbye to my kids. That would have played on me a little bit, but it's not the same though because of the level of peace and love that's there. And you know that you're going to see them in basically a couple minutes anyway.”29:37

“struggling to understand why is this has this happened why is this happening now and how can I just make it through because I'm still here and they've moved on. >> Um I think one thing to remember and that is that um love continues on. You know, love never dies basically that I feel the love of my parents still now. It's not like it's ended. It's not like they've they've both passed and the love is is no longer there. I still feel just as loved by them now as I did when they were alive and when I was a kid and I”29:55

“He didn't look like a young man. He looked like an older man, the man I knew from my childhood. The person was there to comfort me, and it was really emotional, to say the least, seeing the person you love and lost and hadn't seen in years, to know they still existed, to know that the love that they felt that day they died was just as strong years later when he was finding me.”5:11

“If you just think about it because people change, and your grandparents, you know, they are old when you meet them, but when you see them in heaven, they're not old anymore.”4:18

“And it's like the other side because during my second NDE, I saw my kids in the future, but they looked the same age, but they were discussing the fact that, 'Mom has died.'”21:50

“And I just thought, you know, even my kids were babies, they're going to forget me in time. It's just like I never even lived. And so, you know, when I come back gradually and more and more, I got older, I like, we just got to, you know, shake things up when we're here. Let people know we're here.”34:47

“I assumed they're the age you would they would be now, and not as children when you knew them?”35:03

“So to know that your child is at peace, to know that your sadness is real, that doesn't take it away. You've lost them in this realm, but you haven't completely. It won't look the same, but embrace the ways that you can connect now, and remember, no realm is stronger than the love between you and your child.”16:44

“But see, I would have never recognized her. Why is that? Because she had changed so much. She died in her 90s. And I knew her as an old woman when I was a kid. She was you know in her 80s, and so she was a small lady at the time on the earth. And so I would have never recognized her by her earthly”6:14

“And I'd like to tell people that when somebody crosses over, let's say, it's a loved one, and they get to the other side, they don't grieve the same way that we do. Grieving's different for them because from their perspective, that person is going to be there in just a matter of a month or two. But for us here on Earth, we might have another 30, 40, or 50 years to go. They don't see it like that. It's, it's just different for them in terms of the time. So they just, they grieve a little bit differently than we do.”1:47