whether theyll grow up on the other side or remain as you knew them

“experienced it through the life of my four children. And something very pivotal that I remember was I knew that I was not truly leaving them, which I think that this is really important for anybody that's watching that has lost someone that they are very close to or a parent who's lost a child or a spouse. But I knew that I was not really leaving my kids. I knew that I was leaving them physically, but that I was going to experience every moment of their lives with them. Almost more so in a way. I”38:01

“8 years into the future after dying. So it was like that day, eight years into the future, I was being brought forward. And I could sense every like every year I could feel that love that we had is the is our connection. It's our, you know, it's it's how I know them and they know me. It's that light. And I could feel it getting dimmer and dimmer. It's like they were forgetting me. Not that forgetting me in their mind that I'm their mom or I'm the I'm I'm the wife or whoever, but they couldn't feel me”31:32

“So when other people died in my life, as people passed, I realized that they continued beyond the point of death. And it really lessened my grief. Yes, I would miss them. I would miss their time in my life and my interactions with them, but I also felt as though, even though they were gone, that I still had a relationship with them, not that I could hear them or see them or anything like that, but that I felt that their consciousness still existed.”29:08

“I think one thing to remember is that love continues on. Love never dies, basically. That I feel the love of my parents still now. It's not like it's ended. It's not like they've both passed and the love is no longer there. I still feel just as loved by them now as I did when they were alive and when I was a kid. And I still feel the same love for them as well.”31:30

“So our, our experience of time is, is long, years, but on the other side, when somebody crosses over, they still grieve for us who are left here, but it's different for them.”43:56

“And I saw the future of me, of eight years after dying, I experienced like, and like I said, it felt like eight years. I experienced like my children, they were like, and my husband, very bright. And as the years were going, going and going, I could feel it, like, the feeling like they couldn't feel me anymore.”148:39

“Maybe they didn't get to say goodbye to you. I wouldn't have had a chance to say goodbye to my kids. That would have played on me a little bit, but it's not the same though because of the level of peace and love that's there. And you know that you're going to see them in basically a couple minutes anyway.”29:37

“struggling to understand why is this has this happened why is this happening now and how can I just make it through because I'm still here and they've moved on. >> Um I think one thing to remember and that is that um love continues on. You know, love never dies basically that I feel the love of my parents still now. It's not like it's ended. It's not like they've they've both passed and the love is is no longer there. I still feel just as loved by them now as I did when they were alive and when I was a kid and I”29:55

“um you know all of our beliefs, Jesus, Buddha, God, our ancestors, you know, I really feel like it was just the I I'll just say the other side, the collective of the other side is is how I look at it now. And when you experienced that love, how did that compare to earthly love? >> Oh, it was it I mean here I left my body over the loss of my baby, right? So I loved my baby. I hadn't met her yet, but I loved her for nine months. I loved my children. And to have thought, I just want to stay here forever. You know,”19:39

“And it's like the other side because during my second NDE, I saw my kids in the future, but they looked the same age, but they were discussing the fact that, 'Mom has died.'”21:50

“So to know that your child is at peace, to know that your sadness is real, that doesn't take it away. You've lost them in this realm, but you haven't completely. It won't look the same, but embrace the ways that you can connect now, and remember, no realm is stronger than the love between you and your child.”16:44

“And I'd like to tell people that when somebody crosses over, let's say, it's a loved one, and they get to the other side, they don't grieve the same way that we do. Grieving's different for them because from their perspective, that person is going to be there in just a matter of a month or two. But for us here on Earth, we might have another 30, 40, or 50 years to go. They don't see it like that. It's, it's just different for them in terms of the time. So they just, they grieve a little bit differently than we do.”1:47

“And the love was like first they could feel me, at first they could still feel my presence with them and then at the 8 year mark, I just became a memory after 8 years.”22:59

“time. But looking back, I realized that I felt like something exchanged. I felt like a part of her, almost like her spiritual DNA, stayed with me. and that a part of my spiritual DNA, for lack of better words, went with her. >> And right after her death, I was very exhausted and rather numb and and sad uh as people are after such things. But I noticed right away I truly felt so incredibly different in my own uh skin in a sense. I really didn't feel like myself anymore. And then when this began, instead 19 days later, instead of having”7:01

“for a ways and go home. And I was angry and I was hurt and I was just completely shocked because I had just been told I was going to die and I didn't have that long to live. And at the time I was a single father. My wife had died and I had a little girl. I'm not quite sure cuz everyone it feels like everyone got older faster then. So I want to say like 12, but for all I know she was like eight, you know. It's like but she just functioned more as like a 12 or 13year-old in today's time I guess you can say. And”3:10

“Now, that losing a child is totally different. It's totally different. Your two is the worst. And, um, and there is just such a, a feeling of loss there and it, I don't want to say that it's going to ever end, um, it, but what you do learn is that they are in a wonderful place and they're working on the other side and that you've chosen to have that experience to have strength and that it was a contract that happened before you came down.”45:22