What if someone who hurt or abused me in life is waiting on the other side?

“But I thought about it, and then I decided that it didn't matter why they didn't. I also didn't need to know anything from them, so I didn't want to ask them anything, and I didn't even want to get angry at that. I realized it all just didn't matter anymore. So I decided instead, I wanted to be kind and returned to them. So I actually thanked my abusers for the very hard lessons that I learned from them in this and previous lives, and that I was choosing to detach from them and not allow their experiences to affect me any longer, and that I forgive them and I let them go.”30:54

“just snap, "Oh, okay. I forgive." It doesn't. And I'm not gonna work. It does happen. Like, I don't owe anybody anything. No. No. And you can't just snap it on like that, okay? Well, I forgive you. Uh-huh. I, I never forgave, and I, oh, "Everybody gets off scot-free is that it? We all got to forgive so they don't have to be to blame?" Uh-huh. Yeah, no.”61:27

“and we're so loved and everyone here will meet us there on the other side. I I know people think there's like judgment on the other side. I never felt that. I never felt any judgment. Um I never felt guilty for anything. I just felt pure love. And so that changed. I know a lot of people that have had near-death experiences, they have a life review. As far as I know, I didn't have one. Um, I was told at one point there would be a lot of things I would forget and I wouldn't be able to remember. And”52:41

“It does. I think that when I came back, it was like I understood that as painful as those experiences were, there was still a person who may have been responsible for those experiences, who is also hurt and hurting and, and quite frankly, ignorant of how their actions would affect another person.”9:40

“feelings or thoughts about that person now? And how have you managed to let that go? >> Well, [clears throat] lucky and not lucky for me, I had the the near-death experience because all that was released at that second. Now, I haven't seen him or talked to him um heard from him, heard of him in 30 years. So I have no feelings. I It's very neutral. It was a human being that existed in my my reality 30 years ago. Um but um that said to let go of anger and resentment is not easy. It is never easy. I've had”69:20

“Wow. So, you know, like, it's really interesting to see someone go through a process like that. And I've seen other, other spirits be greeted by ancestors as well. Uh, one person felt a lot of guilt as soon as he passed over. He didn't expect to pass over. He passed over on the operating table. As soon as he passed over, he was stuck, and he was stuck in this void, and he was full of guilt and remorse for what he'd done in his life, and he was going to get fully stuck in it, and the pain of it, and the, you know, the darkness of it. And so I helped him there.”34:05

“compassion. So, I was shown my future. Um, I was getting downloads. I went back. I was shoved back into my body. I didn't have a choice to stay. They know. They knew I wouldn't come back for anything. I could have had a wonderful husband and 10 wonderful children. There is nothing that would have kept me from leaving this earth. That's how incredible the other side is. And how incredible you feel out of a body. It's just incredible. It's there's there's a your your love, your bliss consciousness, which is”17:23

“As I went from my fearful state, I was stuck, if you will, but that love poured into me and revealed itself as light, and it washed away all my fears and I felt joy and peace. "I'm going home." We're stuck sometimes with death is final in the ground, goodbye, that's it. He was a nice person and we mourn that. But what if you're wrong? What if you could see with spiritual vision that your loved ones are still there, and how beautiful it is, and how happy it is? That's what I was going to, but I didn't get all the way there. I wish I did, but I came back.”7:18

“The normal dying process is comforting. It is often experienced as a preparation for the life beyond. Upwards of 70% um see people who have died um who returned to them. And interestingly, they leave out the person who harmed or unconditioned or had conditional love for them. So it may be one parent but not another. Um, so there's almost this edifying that identification process that that takes place.”18:49

“And I felt completely held. And the beauty of crossing over is that I no longer had to fight to survive. I no longer had to defend myself. I'd been fighting to survive for so many years. And the peace of crossing over and being held was so expansive and soft.”17:45

“I felt such deep love and compassion for people that I had once saw as my my my perpetrator, where I was once a victim, that I didn't feel that anymore because of this understanding.”12:24

“there. I think that is reassuring to a lot of us that have lost a loved one. um that he was greeted by his brother. And then the life review, I think that really stood out to me because he had a lot of regret over how he had treated his first wife. And I I think there's a lot of people out there that maybe need to hear that that when they've felt like they've been wronged that the other person's going to know and they're going to feel it and they are going to feel um horribly that they did that. And also of”59:55

“It's not always easy because in this light, I also experienced so much love, a kind of love that we don't know here in our world because it's an infinite, unconditional love which I experienced over there, in which in this way does not exist in our world. But from then on, I could better understand people in many ways, for example, when I was faced with their tragedy and suffering about which I didn't care before. But if since then somebody was sad, I tried to comfort him because I too have experienced this comfort in the light. In later years you still had further experiences. How did this happen? I think that due to the preceding experience, I had apparitions of my deceased grandmother and also my best friend who died when she was 15.”8:55