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“And and one of the, I'm just going to give a kind of little piece of that because this will be related to the transmission of the love I received during that death experience. And so I crossed over. I met two sisters. I moved on to several other beings who were helping me purify any belief that I was not worthwhile, that I was less than, that the abuse meant that something was wrong with me.”6:44

“people's lives. And when you know that your consciousness survives death, then when someone who passes away that is your loved one, if you continue to talk to them, they can hear you. They're in just a different realm. Yes, their personal body is gone. They're not in your life here, but they might be helping you from the other side. You never know who those helpers are. I didn't know who that guy was that was helping me in front of, you know, when they grabbed my arm and saved me from the truck. So, I don't know who pushed”37:37

“So I think it's very common for near-death experiencers to get asked the question from people who are grieving, you know, what, what happens on the other side? Is my loved one okay? You know, am I going to see them again? Am I going to have a chance to reconnect? And one of the things that I've I've come to understand is, and again, my my experience is completely fluid, and I'm still evolving it in my understanding, is that we really kind of come with four core feelings that really represent our experience on a soul level.”56:26

“But where I was, I felt as if I had my grandma. She was there by my side and she was taking care of me. Even there in the hospital, she was making sure I was okay. A real understanding that we're never alone when we pass over, and I know as a psychic medium now that you'll never alone when you pass over. There's always a loved one on the other side, and I can confirm that because of what I'd experienced then.”15:48

“The normal dying process is comforting. It is often experienced as a preparation for the life beyond. Upwards of 70% um see people who have died um who returned to them. And interestingly, they leave out the person who harmed or unconditioned or had conditional love for them. So it may be one parent but not another. Um, so there's almost this edifying that identification process that that takes place.”18:49

“It's been very interesting talking to so many souls to find out that there are many similarities in the death process and yet there are differences just like all of us are different. So depending on how someone died and also how aware they were of the greater reality before they passed will change their experience when they passed. So, if there's a sudden passing from someone who didn't know there's an afterlife, in many cases, there's a bit of confusion, but they're met by loving guides and loved ones who”14:19

“was something more divine and bigger than me basically that was making that decision if it was my time to be to cross and go through the tunnel to the other side. And at the end of the tunnel there were people or spirits there. And were those relatives? Who do you think those people were? >> I think those were ancestors and friends and people that I had known um you know throughout my many lives that I have probably you know lived. I I mean I feel like when we incarnate we bring many we carry a lot of baggage”20:47

“that were not of this life. Places, beings, soul ties. I felt that earthly life was a brief but dense passage, meant to make us experience what no spiritual world could offer us: separation, uncertainty, free choice. And then there was after. The afterlife. I saw it, or rather… felt it. A world made of pure consciousness. This presence added, “What have you learned?” I had already learned quite a few lessons by the time this happened, I was 28. The most important one was that I had to consider others even when”2:04

“So I knew that, well, I know that we watch and our departed still experience us and they root for us to love one another. But anyway, that's, that's just part of the understanding that I receive. Back to the experience, I'm still going up. I'm going up. It looks like some other souls are coming up with me. They're being welcomed just like I was, as I'm coming up. There's some going back as well. I don't know exactly what was going on there. They're being returned. I don't know, but that was going on. There's like this exchange that keeps occurring between the Earth and whatever this other state was.”31:19

“There's so many near-death experiencers, even with abusive parents, who have talked about how when they have transitioned to the other side, they finally understand each other, and there's great forgiveness and deep love and deep understanding.”26:16

“And I was up there above, and I also had an awareness of like, um, almost like family or like this grandmother spirit vibe was like I couldn't see them, but it felt like I could feel it. I felt like they were like over there. Um, as an adult now, I think that that was like, you know, how people talk, a lot of people watching might have heard people talk about when they cross over, they're greeted by loved ones. I think that maybe if I was to fully cross over, that's why they were there to waiting for me almost.”4:00

“and we're so loved and everyone here will meet us there on the other side. I I know people think there's like judgment on the other side. I never felt that. I never felt any judgment. Um I never felt guilty for anything. I just felt pure love. And so that changed. I know a lot of people that have had near-death experiences, they have a life review. As far as I know, I didn't have one. Um, I was told at one point there would be a lot of things I would forget and I wouldn't be able to remember. And”52:41

“afterlife visually until my experience. Writing about it does not capture how I saw the light or those beings. My earthly eyes were not with me. My soul saw the beings. When I found myself in that golden place, I simply knew I'd come home from where my soul belonged. There was emotional healing for me in that golden place. Love heals, and that's a truth I've known since my father lovingly held my foot when I was sick as a teenager. My experience confirmed the healing power of love, though I can't explain how. I”5:22

“As I went from my fearful state, I was stuck, if you will, but that love poured into me and revealed itself as light, and it washed away all my fears and I felt joy and peace. "I'm going home." We're stuck sometimes with death is final in the ground, goodbye, that's it. He was a nice person and we mourn that. But what if you're wrong? What if you could see with spiritual vision that your loved ones are still there, and how beautiful it is, and how happy it is? That's what I was going to, but I didn't get all the way there. I wish I did, but I came back.”7:18

“And that was a shock to me because I thought I was going to be judged. Nothing I had done on Earth needed to be weighed or measured. The life I had just left behind told a story, yes, just like many. I have lived in different realms and I honestly felt like an astronaut floating in outer space, filled with wonder. And that's how I really felt on the other side. And I can tell you, you're in um, I could see, I could look down and see my body in a ditch, all mangled up, and I was like, I don't want to get back in that body. There's going to be massive pain, there's going to be massive suffering. I'm going to be put back in with a family that had all of these, um, rigid belief systems.”13:34

“So you will see them again. You more than likely will be able to live a life with them again, and everything will make sense once you get to the other side.”28:20